At a small seminar, Donna reported she had been told she had physical issues she needed to address--she was out of balance and her body was filled with parasites. Seminar participants offered lots of advice for Donna. Donna was also dealing with a weight issue, which elicited plentiful recommendations from the group. As I listened, I was uncomfortable with the general tone of the conversation. Everyone meant well, but the theme  was, “There’s a lot wrong with you, and we are going to tell you how to fix it.”