One needs to find their center first and then practice staying centered amidst all the distraction. Not only do human beings, children, parents, all adults become so emotionally distracted by the other things going on in their lives, and react to them, and then experience the emotional out lash of those things that are going on around them, what then becomes you’re perspective? Do you hold your perspective according to the core center of your self?
Too many times we find that couples who get married at a very young age and have children, once the children have left the house, that the couple no longer find anything in common, and so they’re relationship ends up in a divorce. Finding one’s core center self eliminates that type of experience in one’s life, because of the knowing of who you are. And once again the cycle continues because the children or those who are being raised, don’t know any different than what they have been raised with, and that cycle continues on and on from lifetime to lifetime. Everything in your life comes back to self recognition of your core self.
Human beings as a whole are just not taught that concept at a very early age. And the reason they can’t be taught that is because those who are doing the teaching don’t know that very principal themselves. You can only lead and teach by example, unless you have a very complete sense of self, you’ve done your soul searching, you finally found what your connection back to the SOURCE of all things is. Once you have done that you then could show your children that. But usually that doesn’t come to you until later in you’re life and you’re children have already grown.
Sometimes in life it is the older parents that are much better teachers because they have been able to experience and learn and understand things better, they then can teach those who are seeking. Thank goodness we are not all being taught by grandparents or the older generations, cause that would be absolutely exhausting for them.
Isn’t it amazing that there are still tribes in this world that still exist that the older elders do all the teaching. And there are still some primitive societies, even some commune type of societies, where the young will give birth to the children, but it is the elders who will teach the children, the elders are the valuable ones in the society, they teach the children the core issues, and how to be well, and how to heal themselves. And those societies live very harmoniously together, and the roles become reversed . Doesn’t it make one think , or ask the question to one’s self, why is it that we has a Western civilization or a so-called advanced society haven’t figured out how to even be familiar with ourselves and keep ourselves centered with all the distractions that we have in society. If you are taught that a very young age that you are capable of becoming or doing anything that you could imagine, or if you were in a relationship that allowed you the freedom to experience all that you feel you need to experience how much farther along in your life and how much farther along in your experience would you be?
If you have gotten to a point in your life where actions and understandings, and how you feel inside is contrary to what you have been taught or what others are teaching, then you are awakening your self to the knowing that there is something else that is out there that is better. Why would anyone want to bury themselves in the misconception that life as it is, is all there is? That life as we know it as human beings cannot be better? Your internal knowing knows different. Your soul knows different.
Have you finally gotten to the point in your life where there is some self discovery going on, and you are saying to yourself wait just a minute? Has your soul finally started showing up? Are you starting to see things differently? Do things in your life seem not to be as others see them? What is it that your soul is saying to you? Are you finally starting to recognize or is your soul prompting you into recognizing self recognition? What is it that is speaking to you from within?
In your human life’s experience there is a definite difference between what you are telling somebody and what you are showing somebody. Example; an adult who drinks alcohol and drills into their children do not drink is going to have a hard time convincing that child not to drink when you are drinking in front of them or they see you drinking. A child is going to lose all respect for the adult that says treat others respect fully and yet they don’t do the same in their own life. That is teaching by example, that is showing someone a difference. It all comes back to the old saying your actions speak for themselves. And they are the only thing that speak. Words are nothing in the eyes of a child. Words are nothing in the eyes of those who are seeking to be taught, and they see something completely different than what they are being taught. Thus the conflict in life.
The conflict between seeing and hearing and doing, which affects you’re being. So by finding you’re own self, you find your connection back to SOURCE. Then your actions change. They automatically will change, because of the knowing. In finding your soul and self discovery and your connection back to SOURCE, you will naturally act in a particular type of manner. Which is you become a much more connected person due to the fact that you understand that all things are connected. Behavior follows the learning experience.
The art of allowing allows another the freedom for self discovery no matter how long it takes. They might get it soon in their life’s experience, or they might get it later in life, but they will get it! That is the process in the art of allowing! The process comes more quickly. The art of allowing demonstrates to others the very thing that you are trying to show them. The human being who is centered amidst all distraction is practicing the art of allowing. And these principles are taught backwards in the human life experience. So we are saying to you AWAKE! And let‘s begin the process of learning and healing yourself from within! Let’s teach you the art of allowing and how you yourself as a human being can heal yourself by recognizing who you are and what you’re soul is saying to you. Awake and learn the simple things that make life so fun. Learn why you are here on this Earthly plane. Learn to trust yourself and you’re knowing. Learn to trust you’re spiritual experiences and the fact that you’re soul is speaking out to you. Awake! Awaken yourself to the knowing! And allow others the same!