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Are you a do-er or a don’t-er?

Written by  Kasey Brad
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 Let’s talk for just a minute about people who are doers in they’re lives and those who are don’ters. Or should we say someone who does, and someone who doesn’t. There really is a big difference between the two. 

Sometimes just telling someone that they are a doer or that somebody is a don’t er just isn’t enough. Sometimes it’s too hard for someone who is a don’t to try to do. And the funny thing is about those who always do, they really do all the time.

They are always doing something.  Are you working on being a human being or a human doing? And how do you attach being a human being to you’re doing? Is it the icing on the cake of life if you can become aware of the human you are being,  and add that onto the layer of whether you are a human doing or a human don’ting? Because humans either do or they don’t. End of story.

We could talk about it being positive and negative,  we could talk about it being happy or sad,  but you really could just categorize people in those two categories doers and don’ters. You’re going to have extremes in those categories and you can have pretty laid-back people in those categories. You can break people down pretty quickly personality wise and it’s pretty evident in their achievements in their lifes achievements in the facts of the attempts in their lives, or attempts in their life. There are those that attempt things and there are those who just don’t attempt things. And out of all the multitude of attempts you are going to have a certain percentage of successes. Even when you do fail the people who are doers get the fact that by the mere fact of trying something,  you’re attempting to do something. They always get something out of it. They are always doing. 

 Families can be broken down into those categories. Some in the families are doers,  some in the families are don’ters. You might even have a whole family of doers or you might even have a whole family of don’ters. And in the family of doers they drive each other crazy because they are always trying to outdo each other. Now the ironic part is a lot of people that don’t tend to believe that they do. And all they are really doing is attaching themselves to other doers. And because they are not accountable for their actions, they will use others achievements as their own.

 So are you a ardenous doer? Or are you a selfish don’ter? How self-aware are you? Who do you blame for all of your under achievements in your life? Doers claim accountability even for their shortcomings. I was on my path to achieving this and I don’t blame anybody else except myself for not achieving it. A  don’t type person always has an excuse as to why they didn’t achieve what it was they were achieving, and why somebody else was to blame. Doers will always give others the accolades of their achievements,  don’ters only claim they’re own achievements at the expense of others. A don’t give’s credit to others when they fail,  and claim whole credit for themselves when they achieve, and a doer will claim credit for themselves and others and gives others they”re credit when they succeed. Can you see that they are total opposites?

 If you sit down and break down each aspect in your life you would soon see that at some point in your life you have been one or the other. There is always some figuring out going on in your life. There are always things you can look back at and say to yourself “ I wish I would’ve done things differently. I wish I would have followed through with this or followed through with that“. But the mere fact that you sit down and see that,  and recognize that,  means that you have turned the page into becoming a doer in your life. And sadly enough,  doers always seem to want to help the don’ts. Because doers always want to do for other people. And the don’t  will always be more than happy to let you do for them. Because they don’t. 

 And this is part of the dilemma, and part of the paradox, that goes on in our lifes existence. The climb  in life is to accept people and recognize who and what they are. And to realize that once you start your climb you don’t want to go back down to the don’t. Human beings very seldom ever get the recognition of each other. 

Let’s use another word instead of don’t. Let’s say you are disconnected. That would mean that you are no longer connected to the SOURCE of all things. Example: an electrical cord is plugged into an electrical outlet thus creating electricity through the cord to supply what it is supplying at the end of its outlet. Without the cord being plugged in to a source of electricity there would be no source of electricity at the other end,  thus it would be disconnected. When human beings become disconnected in their lives and they lose connection to the SOURCE of all things, you soon find yourself in need of that energy. If the truth be told and you had full recollection of who you are and you had full recollection of your connection to SOURCE and how powerful your being is,  you couldn’t help but do. 

You do, because you know that’s all there is to do. As a don’t you are disconnected from the SOURCE of things. You have forgotten how powerful you are, you have stopped achieving things, you can’t do it, you don’t want to do it, things in life are too hard. You have fallen off the recognition wagon of your own powerful self. So connection is doing, disconnection is a don’t.  So how does a don’t become a do? Through self-awareness and reconnection to SOURCE. Then you realize there is nothing else to do but to do, there are no failures, there are no weaknesses, in ultimate reality, and once you get your mindset on that wagon you are going to do. Now the difficulty in this  is that the universe delivers everything that we request. So for someone who is used to being a don’t, because nothing ever works out, nothing ever works out in my life, that is exactly what you get in your life nothing, because that is your request. Your experience is your request. So shift your request. Shift your experience. The universe will deliver.

 Perception, request, all affect your requests from the universe. Your thoughts and perception is what affects you. And the universe  delivers it to you,  exactly which you perceive to be your experience. That’s why we don’t hold onto past life experiences due to the fact that they would clutter our new life experiences and our progression. Life would become way too complicated if we were to remember past life experiences. We have a hard enough time with our own experiences now. You can choose to become anything that you choose at any moment that you choose it. And what is the difference between being a do and being a don’t? Fear or love! 

It always comes down to those two categories fear or love. Love is always do, fear is always don’t. Ultimate reality or illusion. Ultimate reality is only love and doing because that is what SOURCE is doing, or disconnection is illusion and forgetting who you are living in the illusion around you the fear-based reality and you don’t because you are caught up in the illusion that is around you. So everything in life, and everything in our existence, falls into those two categories. It can be broken down into different titles, different descriptions for different types of experiences, but you are still describing either fear or love. Connection or disconnection. You do or you don’t. Positive or negative. The yin and the yang. It all has to do with acknowledgment of one’s self. Example: how do you know yourself if you are in a white room, with no doors,  no Windows,  no one to tell you what you look like, whether you are male or female,  whether you have dark skin or light skin, whether you are tall or short, skinny or heavy, blue-eyed or brown eyed?  

How do you know who you are,  if no one is there to tell you? How do you know anything if there is no form of contradiction going on? You have to be able to experience you’re self. You have to be able to understand you’re self. You have to be able to be comfortable with you’re self. You have to be connected to you’re self. Which is exactly what is going on in the universe. And it all gets back to connection and who are you being? Do you sense that you are connected to SOURCE? Or,  are you disconnected from that reality? And that there is some form of approval that you have to seek in order to be connected? Do you feel like there is an initiation process in order to get into the club? 

Isn’t that a cool way to talk to your children and say to them or ask them,  are you doing or do you don’t? Can’t you always tell when a child is a don’t? and don’t you want better for them? Let’s work on getting you to be a better doer. Let’s work on getting you more to the do side in life. When a child wants to do or when you have a human being who wants to do that is a very uplifting experience in one’s life. What type of person would you have become if your parents or the person who had raised you had sat you down and said to you” I believe you are a doer.” That is a wonderful thing to do in your life, I believe you will do much more with you.re life because of the fact that you are that way. Walk awake in your knowing that no matter what you do, you are doing! What a difference that would make in one’s life don’t you think? What kind of self empowering knowledge with connection would you have in all that you do?  Would you look at things differently and understand things differently in you’re  life just by doing instead of don’ting? You choose to make that distinction in your life,  no one else does, only you do. So, Do you choose to be among the do or the don’t? and practice seeing the difference. Does it make more sense to hang  with the do’s or the don’ts,  and reconnect in you’re life?

As you journey through your life and you come to the Evergreen garden of  the latter years of this life’s experience,  and learning things about your own self, and looking back on your own path of discovery, of the positive and the negative, and the fear and the love, and the doing and the don’ting along the way, and then you make the decision as to what you would like to do next, more importantly, who are you being , while you do your next thing, which amplifies you, as you do in life.   

1 Comment

  • Comment Link Sunday, 08 January 2012 18:37 posted by Carol Boshears

    My cousin's wife is such a doer for others that it is crazy.It seems that's all she "does". It takes up most of her life (doing things, favors for others). I'm not sure when this is an obsession what you get out of it, but I think it is going too far.
    I am a doer, but I pick mine carefully. Some civic work and church work. I volunteered for @4 years for online counseling. I find you have to take time for yourself to be whole. I know who I am, sometimes I don't like some traits, but that's life. But does my cousin's wife even take a minute to know herself??

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