A person who is emotionally imbalanced carries that over into both the work environment and personal relationships. How many of us have had to contend with a controlling, Napoleanic or bullying boss?
Accepting relationships as they come to us is one of life’s greater growth opportunities. I’m not just referring to relationships with partners, but also parents, friends, co-workers and pets. In accepting others as they are, we let go of our structured thoughts, parental criticism and brainwashing. This also leads to increased self-acceptance. It inevitably returns to self-love, self-acceptance, forgiveness and gratitude.
Once you start loving and embracing yourself, you will find it much easier to love and embrace everyone else.To create loving relationships, we need to start by evaluating our relationship with ourselves. How are we loving and honoring ourselves? Are we constantly judging and putting ourselves down? Are we so hard on ourselves, that in our eyes, we can’t do anything right? If this is so, there is a big possibility this is also how we are treating others around us.
Relationships are a fertile breeding ground for personal growth.This premise is becoming widely acknowledged. What isn’t well known or recognized is our Spirit Guide can help us work on and heal relationships. They’re eager to help us move forward spiritually that’s fitting for our level of consciousness.
When a thought hurts, it's the signal that it isn't true. The following excerpt is taken from the book Question Your Thinking, by Byron Katie. Published by Hay House: www.hayhouse.com
Nothing outside you can ever give you what you're looking for. Once we begin to question our thoughts, our partners--alive, dead, or divorced--are always our greatest teachers. There's no mistake about the person you're with; he or she is the perfect teacher for you, whether or not the relationship works out, and once you enter inquiry, you come to see that clearly.
The Angels know and understand you completely and can help bring you into optimal harmony with each person in your life.
Let the Angels help you get what you want from your relationships: find more love, happiness, creativity, productivity, and grace in all your relationships.