Let’s start by embracing who you are. Give yourself a break and decide that today is a new beginning for how you see and treat yourself. Today, know that where you are in life is exactly where you’re supposed to be. Today you let go of the past. Let go of yesterday’s mistakes. Let go of what you didn’t accomplished. Let go of guilt, self condemnation, and fears, so that you can close that door of the past and start new. Slow down and enjoy the moment.
Once you start loving and embracing yourself, you will find it much easier to love and embrace everyone else. It will be much easier to be compassionate and forgiving.

Here are a few things to try:

• Look for the good qualities in your spouse, partner, mother, father, kids, and everyone else, including each of your employees or your boss. This will work much better than always pointing out faults and mistakes of others.

• Appreciate even the little things anyone does for you. Appreciation opens the door to people appreciating you as well. Be verbal about your appreciation of them.

• Try to love without conditions or expectations. This will save you from being disappointed. How can you be disappointed when you have no expectations of others? Do everything out of love. Forgive and forget. Do not get stuck in the past.

• Always remember, you cannot change anyone. You can only change yourself. When you change yourself, your world “will” change. This is a Law of this Universe.

At the end of our lifetime, we review our lives based on how loving we were, how compassionate, how forgiving. It’s all about relationships with ourselves and others. At the end, we are here to remember we are all One. Nothing else will matter much.

Laura Bonilla, C.Ht., Licensed Spiritual Coach, Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Master/Teacher has studied Past Life Regression with Dr.Brian Weiss. She is also certified by Doreen Virtue. Laura’s holistic approach is to bring Spirit-Mind-Body into Oneness. She has her private practice to help people be successful in life. Also if you would like to become a healer and help people, contact Laura or check her website for her training sessions.  For private sessions, info about her classes or her Hypnosis CDs go to www.themindclinic.net email: laura@themindclinic.net Or call: 909-994-5701.