A reason relationships fail is due to blocked heart chakras. We can’t give or receive love.  If we pray about our relationship, our Spirit Guides will respond and do something about it. For instance, they can place loving energy into us through the crown chakra, and wash our aura in pink energy. People with this kind of energy act differently.  They can also help us open our heart, and doors to relationship. My Guide did this for me, and I felt the difference immediately even while I was processing other issues. He has become indispensable to my well-being.  Ask your Guide if he/she knows how to do this, and if not, can they learn? Another benefit to opening our heart is we attract more people. Regarding the heart chakra, they can remove the blockage if we subconsciously allow it. We have to be open to relationships on all levels, and not heavily influenced by negative behavior patterns.  If we have any fear or resistance, the kind of relationship we want won’t manifest despite affirmations.  Do you have any patterns getting in the way of creating healthy relationships? Or are you stuck in addictions, drama and unworthiness? We manifest what we’re ready for and what we’ve earned.

Spirit Guides can arrange for counseling in the dream state to work on any pattern or issue that is keeping us from finding a good relationship or saving a current one.  What do you want to create in your current relationship?  You can be guided to get along better with your partner in the dream process.  Remember to ask for what you want.

Your Guide can also converse and plan with other Guides. Many things take place behind the scenes, including setting up astral meetings with our partners for mediation purposes. We may not remember these meetings, but they affect us energetically nonetheless. All of this helps us rethink our lives, and how we approach life on basic levels. 

Relationships are a spiritual journey, as they enhance our personal growth by bringing us challenges that compel us to look at ourselves, and force us out of our comfort zone. Spirit Guides can help us get ready for a partner and work off karma to meet the right person. They may not give us all the information we seek at once, since we may sabotage it or not be ready for the truth.  Have faith, work on yourself, and ask your Guide for assistance while showering them with gratitude and appreciation.

I’ve changed the format of my TV show, “Secrets of Self Improvement” to discussing and demonstrating healing and personal growth with “guest subjects”.  Another healer and often myself will work with them.  The goal is to illustrate a holistic approach to healing.  If you’d like to be on a show to share your story, please email me.  

©2009 Christine A. Loter
Christine A. Loter is a certified Clairvoyant Hypnotherapist and Reimaging™ consultant. Her background is in healing, metaphysics and the paranormal. Phone or in-person sessions on life purpose, healing journey & self-empowerment. Her TV show, Secrets of Self Improvement is on Channel 17, Santa Barbara area. (805) 560-0480. christineloter@yahoo.com, www.sbwellnessdirectory.com/christineloter