...you can control how you talk to yourself, regarding what others say to you.
Matt, age six, came into the house crying hysterically. Tears flowed down his cheeks and he couldn't catch his breath. I put him on my lap and held him close. His breathing slowed as I rubbed his back, but the tears continued.
What's wrong," I asked, as I continued to rub his back.
"Randy," he blurted out between sobs
"Randy hit you?"