Relationships

*What Ingredients insure that our relationships are enhancing?

All relationships, when created through a sense of integrity, are fundamentally enhancing. Relationships are meant to expand and evolve. If our relationships restrict us and cause us to inhibit and repress our true selves, we need to ask ourselves very quickly what are we still doing in the those relationships? What lessons are we learning from staying in these situations? If relationships are created from a point of dishonesty––and it could even be we are dishonest with ourselves, or with the other people about our truth––then these types of relationships will act as exclusive, disharmonic interactions. If we are able to let go of fear in our relationships, we become compassionately supportive and allowing of the other person so they, in turn, can be true to themselves. It is up to us to set the example first. The negative side of support is manipulation and interdependency and this makes everyone feel icky.

The point is not to lean on anyone, the idea is to support them. In supporting them, we become supported. More importantly, we all need to practice unconditional love, acceptance, and support for ourselves. This is what allows us to trust and know, no matter what changes are made. Know, by divine law, we are never cut off from anything that is truly intended for us.

* Change
When we come from a place of integrity and changes occur, then the changes belong in our lives. Fear of change is usually the fear of losing something. If we understand everything is happening as it needs to, then we never need to fear losing anything. It is usually only the fear of the change that prevents us from changing along with our partners. By letting go of our fears, we will know that no matter how much we might change, we will attract whatever and whoever is representative, harmonious, and unified with our changes.

*Connection to Infinite Creation
When we realize we are connected to everything, we also realize it is not possible for us to be abandoned. It has been said, the word "alone" can be read: alone––or all one. The choice is ours. We are always connected to the infinity of creativity, and we can choose to be open to the flow of it in all the moments of our lives. By paying attention and staying aware of divine flow, being in the moment and acting upon it with integrity, all circumstances in our lives align into place, representative of whatever is our strongest intention and focus. Everything that needs to work itself out, will. If we can conceive of another way we would like to be, then our desire alone is a sufficient sign of our ability to create it for ourselves.

Infinite creation will not deny us our preference of the way we choose to be, once we are clear and balanced with what specifically that is, and we begin to express it in true integrity with who we really are. Creation has given us the free will as to how we choose to live our lives. Our free will and the ability to choose what we prefer is our go-ahead wave from creation to do just that.

December 2001

Relationships

by Ken Page